Singles and Insecurity

As per govt. data widows make up the maximum number of single women at 13.6 million followed by those who never married, 12.3 million. There are 44.4 million single women in rural areas, almost 62% of single women in India. The reasons for the increase in population of single women are divorce, separation as well as widowhood. Single women in the age group of 25-29 have seen the greatest increase (68%) between 2001 and 2011.

Although rural single females outnumber their urban counterparts, there was a

58% increase in the number of urban single women, from 17.1 million in 2001 to 27 million in 2011. Single women are n vulnerable to both physical and financial insecurity but also often face overt discrimination. Every single day, single women from all walks of life are being violated, molested and assaulted. Biggest problem for a single women is that in society her explanation of ” being single is a choice” is tough. People generally feel sorry for the lady or even go forward and assume something is wrong with her or nobody actually wants her.

India is religiously traditional and still sensitive to the woman, wherever you go in the country you will meet ‘n’ number of mostly conservative Indians with a voracious thirst to know why you are single and not married or no children? Single women are hurt by the all the stereotyping and discrimination.  Single women often face the challenge of feeling isolated, socially boycotted by familial women in functions or in parties which can negatively impact mental health and well-being. Greatest problem arises after 40s when isolation and insecurity haunts the most and suicidal tendencies starts developing.

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In case of Men also data shows steep rise of singles. National Statistical Office stated that the percentage share of the youth population (15-29 years) who are never married has shown an increasing trend in the male population from 20.8 per cent in 2011 to 26.1 per cent in 2019.

Such rise in the state of singleness is neither good for their wellbeing not good for society as a whole. In Hinduism no God is single, all are depicted with their other half.

According to Lord Krishna, there are only two ways of liberation- first one is going with your forefathers i.e. Pitris on the path of karma yoga, and another one is to renounce the world and opt for self-realization. Second option is very tough for women, however many feminist women treaded this path and brought waves of enlightenment. In Hinduism the concept of four ashramas make life perfect.

Being single or unmarried is a curse if one is living a social life. It is fine if one opts for asceticism. Society welcomes such people, but living in society with families is peculiar and it is not acceptable. Married women feel threat from single women and hence they hate and boycott them. In such scenario astrology gives solution to singles and explains what causes this state of being and how to resolve it.

Alienation, Singleness, fear, insecurity and suicidal tendencies are affect of planetary combination and afflictions. Understanding it opens new ways to understand life as a whole and move forward in it. At GargAstro you get best Vedic astrology consultancy to resolve all issues of your life. In our Vedic astrology consultancy we use both Eastern and Western techniques. We are grounded in Vedanta philosophy but we also utilize philosophy of life taught by many great modern thinkers and feminists.